We (my mother, 4 1/2 year
old daughter, Sierra, my wife and I) began our trip to China on Sept. 23,
leaving from Orlando to Beijing. We stayed there 3 days, seeing all the
major sights before flying to Nanchang City to pick up Teagan (9.5 months
old) the following morning. There were 6 families in our group, with an
additional group of 11 families who were adopting from another orphanage in
the province. When we were handed Teagan, it was very emotional. She was
pretty shook up to be handed off to another new face. She was in foster
care prior to the referral, and was very close to her foster mom. She then
was placed in the orphanage since the time of referral, so was probably
thinking, "Oh great, here we go again!!" It was clear from a health
standpoint, that the girls were well cared for, as none of the children had
lice, scabies, etc. All were physically healthy. The girls eventually
bonded to at least one parent by the end of the day.
Since the National Holiday was going on, we were able to experience China
for 7 days above the typical stay. At first you're thinking, "bummer,
another 7 days of Chinese food, people staring, and watching where you
step", but it turned out to be a great way to get to know a whole lot more
about Teagan's country and it's people (which, by the way, were 99% of the
time very polite and helpful).
On Oct. 8, we took the 3 hour bus ride to Nanfeng Social Welfare
Institute. We were met my Mr. Lu, the orphanage director, who took us to
the second floor of the orphanage where the babies (0-1) were living. We
were also able to meet some of the nannies, and view some of the facilities
(see pictures). The nannies were very tender and loving toward the children
and each cared for 4 to 5 babies, even housing their beds in the same room
with them. From what we were shown, the care area for that age consists of
a wooden floor open area for the walkers to scoot around, and off of that
room were the sleeping quarters for the nannies and their children. There
was also a small formula preparation area off to the side. Large windows
allowed ample sunlight to enter the scooter area, and butterfly gardens
adorned the courtyard outside. To conclude our visit, Mr. Lu treated us to
a TRULY Chinese dinner at a very posh restaurant. Sierra's favorites were
the shrimp that still had eyeballs attached.
The following day we left to Guangzhou to complete the adoption. After
constant shopping for 2 days, we flew on to Hong Kong (Oct. 13) in order to
fly to Chicago and then to Orlando.
Since returning home, Teagan has perfected crawling, waving, clapping, and
giving herself oatmeal facials. Once in a while she also feels it's a must
for beautiful, shiny hair; so much for Pantene. She cruises the furniture,
and stands alone for, well... until she feels like sitting down. She is
alert, happy, and seems (by all the charts) to be right on track with
physical and emotional gains. All of her medical tests from her
pediatrician here came back just fine. She is just starting to babble, and
has bonded to everyone in the immediate family. She doesn't like to visit
the arms of others just yet, except a few close neighbors who she sees on a
regular basis.